Love is a beautiful thing, and falling in love can be the best feeling in the world. However, being in a romantic relationship is like going on a journey to an unknown destination. This journey is never free of obstacles, it’s never a smooth ride. Even for a journey that eventually leads to ‘the promise land’, taking a stroll down the “wilderness” is inevitable. Everyone experiences the ups and downs of any relationship. While some might be well managed, others might hit rock bottom, and lead to the partners going their separate ways.
We’ve all had our tastes of heartbreaks. Chances are you’ve been through at least one breakup in your life. You’ve either been heart broken; directly or indirectly or you’ve broken someone’s heart; knowingly or unknowingly.
Breakups happen for a whole host of reasons. Nobody ever finds them easy, and usually we don’t respond to them the same way. While some might heal and get over it in days, it might take weeks for many, a lifetime for few, and never in a thousand years for others.
After a while, you might look back at some of the actions you took during that phase of your life, and let out a little smile or can’t buy laugh hysterically. While some of the actions can be sad and painful, others are funny and embarrassing.
Today, we honor these unlikely heroes of ours who have had the privilege to heal and now have a good telling their break up tales. ENewNigeria share some of the stories, as seen on Twitter, with you. There’s definitely something here for all of us to think, smile and laugh about:
😂what is this please? How were you even finding funerals
— Leo Dasilva (@SirLeoBDasilva) September 13, 2020
You did not only trekked from Gerin Alimi to Tanke, you were always crying in your sleep, smiling in the morning, eating at noon and crying every night. You wore bathroom slippers to Lagos and got admitted at the hospital for 3 months. Infact, na small e remain, you for craze
— Alawode Saheed (@alaouite2) September 13, 2020
I'm sorry to ask but was it written in Spanish or Swahili???
— Raysynd (@Adefolaitan) September 12, 2020
Which kain life be this
— Leo Dasilva (@SirLeoBDasilva) September 13, 2020
Guy, na for toilet me sef collect breakup sms. She came to my house minutes later to explain herself and straff. I was about to straff when my sense kicked in and whispered not to. 4 months later I found it she was pregnant. She tried to pin it on me. Oriyomi United 😂😂😂
— Patrick Aziken 🇳🇬 (@skylarng89) November 11, 2020
I hope your dad is not seeing this
— Obinna Kelvin (@obinnakel) November 11, 2020
😂😂😂 this lady you will not kill me, so you are deceiving God
— KASEGH #Kiddwaya (@msughterthomas) September 13, 2020
😂😂this is funny, cuz its something I can do
— Pearl (@feranmi_pearl) September 13, 2020
Omo. I don’t even know if I’m to laugh or feel bad for you.
— Toluchi💨 (@Toluchi2) November 11, 2020
Christmas is upcoming man.
— Eleanora | The Voice 😈 🇨🇦 (@DarkPhoenix6_6) November 11, 2020
I called my ex with a new line and I acted like a customer care representative 😂😅just because I wanted to hear his voice😉😃
— Abioyinloba (@abioyinloba) November 11, 2020
Hmm… I did same thing o, true story. What pained me most was that I didn't even get to have secks with her, the heartbreak I felt that night can't be compared to anything else
— Emmanuel_Black (@iamblack001) November 12, 2020
My name is Hennessy, cousin to herny, come let’s us do , I won’t break your heart …. ur kind of emotion is another level .
— DatBoringGuy (@JayHarrbac) November 11, 2020
My name is Hennessy, cousin to herny, come let’s us do , I won’t break your heart …. ur kind of emotion is another level .
— DatBoringGuy (@JayHarrbac) November 11, 2020
You're not, I'm currently in that stage rn, funny enough he actually is up talking to someone else 😩😂…see me doing unconscious fasting for someone that doesn't give two shits about me!!! E be things o😭😭😭
— Glorrryyy👑✂️ Tbaj's Stan♥️♥️💘 (@Gloreeeyah) November 11, 2020
Anointing really fall on top you pic.twitter.com/fLJJ3Kyf7y
— we want a better NIGERIA🇳🇬 (@KeyboardWhore) November 11, 2020
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you sha opened your heartbreak account
— PHARM KLEM 🗯 (@jiklemz) November 11, 2020
Aah! Moms always win this.. same freaking shii.. lol if I remember how I cried these days I feel like a fool.. Omo that geh fcuk me up that time sha..
— Jo€BuG (@Obisouth) November 11, 2020
I fear who no fear you ooo🤣🤣🤣 maka why? pic.twitter.com/R1x3v8eVK5
— I Am Shewa (@adeshewaayoni) September 13, 2020
I know this distance and mahn. This is crazy. So you went through WAEC or myong barracks or what. Mahn this girl must fuxked you up
— kaylaq (@kayylaqq) September 13, 2020
I can relate to this,you will be like:”but you did nothing
Only you will reply yourself:”maybe your smile is annoying”🤦♀️— EVERYTHING SOFT(JAIYESEXUAL)🍫🍫 (@_RareBlessing) September 13, 2020
The stories hold many lessons, but one lesson they collectively share is the fact that hard times don’t just break a person, they can also make a person.